self care routine for busy moms
Lifestyle, Motherhood

How To Build An Epic Self Care Routine

As busy moms having a self care routine in place can be the key to a more healthier lifestyle. Self care is not a priority for most moms when all they are trying to achieve is getting through the day. But with a little planning, you can incorporate some self care into your daily routine.

What Is Self Care?

Self care is any activity done in order to improve physical, mental and emotional health.

Why Is It Important To Have A Self Care Routine?

Spending some time of the day devoted to self care helps improve mood, reduces stress and anxiety. Self care also improves the quality of your relations with others. As they say, you cannot give from an empty cup. Once you feel rejuvenated you are more inclined to participate and do more for others in your life. That is why it is so important to build a self care routine alongside your daily activities as a mother.

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How To Start

Maintaining a journal or planner is an important practice, to begin with. Start with jotting down everything that’s going on in your life.

How does your day look like? What are you feeling currently? What area of your life would you like to see improvements in? Etc. Once you have brain dumped everything in your journal, start narrowing down to specific areas and concerns.

Examples of questions to ask yourself:

  1. What do I want to change right now? – Bad habits? Repetitive and futile emotions consuming your life? Sometimes it’s people in your life that are causing stress and anxiety.
  2. Are there old self care routines that I would love to start again?
  3. Am I getting enough sleep?
  4. What do I like?

Create a list of focus areas to target once you have identified and named the things you want to change or incorporate.

Having good health is key to feeling and looking good. Eating foods high in nutrition coupled with exercise can make a world of a difference to your well being.

Here are a few posts that will motivate you to eat better and all these require little to no cooking skills

Easy Snack Ideas 

Easy No-bake Energy Bar

Easy One Pot Recipes

Easy Soup Recipes

Action Steps To Help Build A Self Care Routine

  1. Change in mindset – Once you have identified the key areas in your life that need work, create an action plan to tackle these. Adding in time for self care requires a conscious effort on your part. Don’t look at self care as a “reward system”. It should be looked at as a part of the process of building a healthy lifestyle. If you look at it as a reward, you will tend to push it further away in the day and maybe skip it all together. You don’t deserve self care as a reward for some kind of hard work. Its an essential part of being a healthy human being; physically, emotionally and mentally. We need to take care of ourselves in order to take care of others.
  2. Avoid situations or people that make you unhappy. These have no place in your life right now. Focus on yourself first.
  3. Some activities like browsing through social media at night or checking on emails first thing in the morning are known to cause disturbed sleep and anxiety. These are better avoided. Decide on a calming and peaceful bedtime routine and morning rituals.
  4. Build the self care routine around your current life situation. Plan your day adding in your favorite activities to suitable time slots. Maybe you have half an hour in the morning or at night after the kids go to bed. Maybe you have an afternoon a week just for yourself. Fill out a weekly plan with time slots dedicated to you. Maintaining a weekly planner can come in handy. When you designate time for yourself in the planner you are more likely to actually implement it.
  5. A self care routine can be anything from 5 minutes to 30 minutes a day. Even adding such little time to self care into your routine will leave you more rejuvenated to do other tasks around the house.
  6. Self care is not just about the physical things you can do to take care of yourself, it should include key activities to build emotional and mental wellbeing too. I find jotting down my feelings on a piece of paper when I am stressed, angry, frustrated to be very helpful. It allows me to assess why I am feeling so, is it something I can shrug off or do I need to take specific steps to correct these. Sometimes all you need to do is acknowledge your feelings to understand them better and move on. That is why journaling is such a powerful tool to maintain emotional well-being.
  7. Learn to say No – you don’t have to do everything all at once. Learn to differentiate between tasks that are essential and ones that are time eaters. Sometimes we take on tasks just to please others in our lives, learn to say No when you know that the said task is taking away time from your schedule. Stick to your schedule instead of going off the rail and then getting into the vicious circle of stress and no time for self.
  8. A beautiful thing that you will notice, is that the more you practice self care the easier and frequent it becomes. Self care becomes a habit when you practice it daily. It comes to you like second nature.

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Here are examples of self care activities you can do in 5 minutes, 30 minutes or 2 hours a day.

Got 5 minutes?

  • Paint your nails
  • Watch a funny video
  • Call a friend/mom
  • Color a mandala book
  • Stretch and do some breathing exercises
  • Make a smoothie
  • Have a bowl of fruit
  • Moisturize
  • Brain dump – Assess your mental and emotional health. What are issues that are nagging you, assess feelings etc

Got 30 minutes?

  • Pedicure
  • Manicure
  • Put on a face mask
  • Have a long bath
  • Listen to music
  • Read a book
  • Make a big bowl of salad for yourself
  • An exercise session
  • Dance
  • Nap
  • Indulge in a skincare routine – Exfoliate, wash, tone and moisturize
  • Go for a walk
  • Online shopping
  • Organize your closet/financials etc – Some people find organizing therapeutic if you are one of them, go for it!

Got 2-4 hours?, Yay!!

  • Salon
  • Spa
  • Meet a friend for lunch/coffee
  • Watch a movie
  • Read a book
  • Go shopping
  • Start an old hobby
  • Learn a new skill
  • Binge watch your favorite TV series

I hope this post gets you thinking about self care. Don’t feel down on yourself if there are days you cannot squeeze in time for yourself. It happens to all of us. Recognize that this is part of mom life too – juggling between things, craving and striving for balance. I know as moms it’s challenging to put ourselves first. Just keep yourself and your needs in your mind too. Don’t feel defeated.

Do comment below what your favorite self care practices are? If you like what you read follow me on Instagram, Facebook and Pinterest. Looking forward to seeing you there!

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6 Comments

  1. #2 is probably my favorite! For the longest time, I felt bad avoiding negative people and felt obligated to hang out. No more!

    1. Ophira says:

      Yes, that one is the key. Such a waste of time and energy.

  2. I like the point you made about self-care not being a “reward” but a part of a healthy lifestyle. That’s an important mind-switch I think.

    1. Yes, this mindset shift leads me to make my self-care routine a priority.It’s easy to lose yourself in the many chores and responsibilities. Sometimes its okay to leave them aside and spend some time by yourself.

  3. This advice is very good! I feel self-care is often a “scary” concept for many, as it’s usually always associated with meditation, yoga, etc that many fear they don’t have the time or skills for. You however manage to introduce an “easier” approach that anyone can practice. Self-care doesn’t need to be anything fancy, as long as it makes You feel good. Great post!

    1. Exactly when we look at self-care routine it is time we invest in ourselves every day.

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